The Business of Feminism - Sexism within Episode 1 of The Apprentice 2014
Within
the first 10 minutes of the opening episode of 2014’s new series of The
Apprentice, I, as well as many others all over the country, was offended by the
sharp sound of sexism penetrating my ear drums. As usual, the business-centred
programme was filled with over-confident and, may I add, delusional contestants
who believed they could “sell ice to eskimos”. The entertaining part of this
show, and the reason why most of us tune in every week, is the precise moment
when these self-obsessed competitors are knocked off of their high horses by
Lord Sugar’s insults and the realisation that, in reality, they could not sell
beer to an alcoholic. Actions speak louder than words, and yet despite this,
the contestants keep talking! Of course, the more incompetent that the main
offenders end up being in each task encourages viewers to celebrate as these
‘business’ men and women are made to eat their extremely vile words in the
board room at the end of each episode. I thoroughly embraced this section of
the episode on Tuesday, as particularly sexist contestants were mocked by Lord
Sugar, the other contestants and undoubtedly the majority of viewers.
The first instance of sexism, and
pure conceit, was proudly executed by Daniel Lassman, the owner of a pub quiz
company. The way that he chose to introduce himself to the 6.6 million viewers
was by stating that he “can make women do whatever [he] wants in the business
world”. To give him his due, he quickly followed this by claiming that he could
also make “some men” do whatever he wanted to, however, this was clearly simply
an afterthought presumably made to impress viewers. It did the absolute
opposite. The very strong implication of this statement is that women are
easier to fool, or at least more susceptible to the deceit of sales than men. Probably
the most shocking aspect of this statement is that a high percentage of viewers
would have found no issue with this claim, apart from the obvious
self-indulgent element of it. How is it still acceptable in this day and age to
make claims that women are weaker than men? It has been proven throughout
history that women and men are equally as powerful when it comes to mental strength;
we have a ruling Queen, and have had many great female monarchs in the past, we
have magnificent female writers such as the up and coming author of Gone Girl,
Gillian Flynn, not to mention endless successful and power-hungry female
business women such as Kelly Hoppen, a ‘dragon’ on The Dragons’ Den, and The
Apprentice’s very own Karren Brady. The fact that this list is even needed is
insulting in itself as our history is full of amazing influential women, a list
that is in fact endless. If Daniel is
actually able to make people do whatever he wants within the business world,
and I highly doubt he is, he surely is able to do this to all people, not just
to one specific gender. Women are not more likely to fall for a salesman’s
games, and are certainly not more naïve than men. Despite this fact, I daily encounter
situations that insinuate that this is not believed by everyone. From walking
down the street and being wolf whistled at like a dog, from being spoken over
by male colleagues as if I had never spoken at all, from countless comments made
by male drivers, none of whom have ever even been with me when I have been
behind the steering wheel, stating that I cannot drive as well as them purely because
I am female; this list also seems to be endless.
For me, the scariest part of Daniel’s
statement by far is the fact that it does hold some truth. Still in our society
men are unjustly paid more than women, the percentage of male managers is far
higher than female managers, and when a woman attends a job interview,
interviewers take into consideration whether she is likely to get pregnant in
the near future. These statistics show that we are giving men more power and
more control than women purely because of their gender. This is, of course, not
true for all businesses within the business world, but the issue is that the
problem still exists. It may well be true that Daniel can control women in
business, but this is not something to boast about, it is something to be
disgusted with. I recently learnt that a new word has been coined; “mensplained”.
This is the action of a male within a business explaining something to a female
that she has already understood. This is not only a patronising action, but one
that assumes authority, and worst of all, one that assumes weakness. The fact
that a new term has been created certainly heightens the importance of this
issue and should draw our attention to just how often this happens. Of course
there is nothing wrong with a helping hand, but as a woman, I am very aware of
the fact that gender is a factor when it comes to authority.
Another issue I have with this
statement is that Daniel is hinting at the fact that he is charming enough to
‘win over the ladies’. This indirectly suggests that all business women are
suckers for men, and will do anything that is asked of them if an intelligent,
business-minded, and average-looking (in Daniel‘s case anyway!) man is the one
asking. I proudly speak for the majority of business women, and women in
general, when I say that these aspects of a colleague or manager have
absolutely no relevance to whether we do our jobs well or not, or complete a
task that has been given to us. We, just like men, do our jobs for more
important reasons than being in the ‘good books’ of a slimy chauvinist that may
or may not be attractive to look at. For whatever reason that Daniel believes
he can get women to do “whatever [he] wants”, it is certainly not because he is
so desirable that all females bow to the floor and beg to be his slaves.
I have always been a strong believer
of gender equality, and I know full well that men are not the only culprits of
entrapping females in false stereotypes. The second moment of blasphemy was when
the poor-excuse of a woman Sarah Dales, an executive assistant for a top
financial firm, commanded her female team members to wear short skirts and put
on lots of make-up because “most people buy from females because females are
more attractive to look at.” One of her team members boldly stated, “I didn’t
bring any short skirts”, to which Sarah replied, “Hike it up”. I immediately shuddered
with disappointment at two significantly unjust implications within this
conversation. The first, of course, was Sarah’s statement that females are more
attractive than males. This claim has absolutely no proof behind it as, of
course, beauty is in the eye of the beholder whether male or female. There are
a strong percentage of people out there, including myself, who find men more
attractive than women, but also a large amount of people who find women more
attractive. Aside from this, making a sweeping statement about the entire
gender, when some women are much more attractive than others (and the same with
men of course), just shows the instability of the claim. Another issue with
this false declaration, as discussed earlier, is the allegation that a sales
representative’s attractiveness solely determines whether they are a good
salesperson. Surely if this is true, as both Sarah and Daniel have implied,
they are undermining not only themselves but the entire show that they so
desperately wish to win, as there is no business knowledge or ability needed in
looking good. It seems that they both think they are on Britain’s Next Top
Model.
The next issue I have with this
exchange is the strong implication that women can only look good if they are
wearing lots of make-up, high heels and short skirts. Sarah continued to prove
how caught up she is in a man’s world by saying “let’s half of us go dressed
up, the rest of us semi-average.” It is insulting that she has publicly claimed
that women look “semi-average” if they are not “dressed up”. Women have been
repressed by the myth of what is seen as beautiful in accordance to men (see
The Beauty Myth, Naomi Woolf) for so long and Sarah has completely bought into
it. Women should be free to look how they want to look and not have to dress
themselves up as somebody else. Not only this, but they should certainly not
have to pretend to be somebody else in order to be successful within the
business world. Lauren Riley, a solicitor specialising in family law, rightly
objected to Sarah’s demand that the all-female team expose their legs and
plaster themselves in lipstick in order to sell by exclaiming, “We’re serious
business women!”
The complications that lie within
these sexist allegations now arise in the questioning of why Sarah felt this
way. It is true that she does not give women a good name, and it is true that
her ‘strategy’ was insulting and oppressing to women. However, she lives in a
world where ‘beautiful’ women who are ‘portrayed’ as getting what they want,
and I must emphasise they are only ‘portrayed’ as this, wear skimpy clothes and
hide their ‘flaws’ with cover-up make-up. We are constantly told by the media
that women need to dress up as dolls to look good and to fit into the role that
they are supposed to undertake, as if being naturally who they are is not
enough. We are fed lies that the women who take time and effort over their
hair, nails and make up will be more likely to get what they want whether this
is socially, academically, in their love life or, of course, in the business
world. On top of this, we are taught that women who show signs of promiscuity are
desirable, allowing them to take control over how they get what they want. In
reality, whether this works or not, women should not be forced to become sexual
objects, as Sarah is asking of her team, in order to be successful. The request
is dehumanising and insulting, and something that would never have been asked
of the male team. Sarah’s view of how a woman can gain success simply reflects
the world that she lives in. The world that I live in, and the world that you
live in. What needs to change, fundamentally, is the viewpoint of the rest of
the world, not just of this BBC reality TV contestant.




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